A friend Erika is dealing with a horrible side affect from her husband’s infidelity. A stalker.
Erika’s husband is an addict. He is also a douche bag. That fact has nothing to do with this story but just had to be said.
Erika thought her hubby had been ‘sober’ for years. She found out 2 months ago that he had been gambling, doing some drugs and, of course, acting out sexually. He told her that he just looked at some porn, chatted on line with some strangers and met a couple girls for dinner. He claims he had no sex and didn’t pay any hookers or any such stuff.
One of these women who he apparently dined with now calls the house phone (they had to have the number changed), calls her husband at work, threatened to tell the wife, drives by the house, etc. She claims that she is sending legal documents to the house. Oh my. So this gal knows Erika’s husbands full name, work place, home address, email, home phone, wifes name, wifes cell phone. Yet he knows NOTHING about her. Not her last name, what car she drives, where she works – not even her last name.
He tried to call Ashley Madison’s support center to get some info on the woman but their only advice was to call the police. Thanks A.M.
This gal is obviously bat shit crazy. Even if she did screw the husband (I have little doubt) – and even if he promised her the sun, moon and stars and various illegal exchanges- her stalking and blackmail is fatal attraction scary.
Men’s stupidity when it comes to sex never ceases to amaze me. The level of arrogance associated with their behavior is laughable.
To all of you out there who believe you are going to pull off an amazing affair with mind blowing sex and no strings attached and are going to walk away when you have had enough. Then your spouse and family are never going to find out, you won’t catch an STD, will successfully delete or hide all history of emails, photos and phone calls from her and the only memory of it will be in your mind. Think again. You’ve gotta be smarter than that.
At the very least, get the girls real name for heaven’s sake. You never know when she is going to come back to stalk you.